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Her coworker pretended to be confused, ignored the team’s methods and called them ‘dumb’ — then her own words gave her away

The individual later questioned the new coworker's friendliness as her truth was exposed of not following basic rules.
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(L) Woman in office. (R) A working woman expressing shock. (Representative Cover Image Source: Pexels | (L) Tiger Lily, (R) Alena Darmel)
(L) Woman in office. (R) A working woman expressing shock. (Representative Cover Image Source: Pexels | (L) Tiger Lily, (R) Alena Darmel)

A new coworker can seem easy to work with until their odd behavior starts raising questions. One employee noticed this after a new team member joined their team with several years of experience. At first, the woman seemed friendly, but she soon questioned instructions and avoided following them. They later learned she had been calling the methods “dumb,” while her own comments revealed the real reason behind her behavior. The individual, identifying as u/laazul later shared the details of the incident on August 11, 2026.

The situation became clearer when they learned what the woman had been telling another coworker about the team's procedures, exposing her act of being confused earlier. She reportedly called the current methods “dumb” and refused to follow them, convinced her approach was better. She also admitted she enjoyed “ruffling feathers” and struggled to accept no, making her earlier confusion seem more deliberate. Her comments gave the Reddit user a different view of those repeated questions and the pushback they had noticed.

Boss talking to employee - Representative Image Source: Getty Images | Photo by fizkes
Boss talking to employee. (Representative Image Source: Getty Images | Fizkes)

The woman also admitted that she had problems with authority and spoke openly about how she dealt with teammates. She said she did not purposely try to undermine others, but added, "if it happens, it happens." That statement made her attitude toward teamwork seem clear. The user tried to respond patiently, thinking the new hire needed more time to understand the workplace, but the woman's comments later exposed her true feelings. A coworker who does not respect shared rules can make even simple tasks harder for the whole team. The new team member had joined only about three months earlier, despite bringing more than eight years of experience in the field. 

Two coworkers talking. (Representative Image Source: Pexels | Moe Magners)
Two coworkers talking. (Representative Image Source: Pexels | Moe Magners)

Her friendly behavior at the beginning had created a positive first impression, but her later comments gave them reason to question that impression. She had even brought snacks for coworkers and seemed eager to be agreeable, yet she also resisted directions and questioned the team's established methods. Her own words revealed why she had seemed so difficult to guide. 

A woman looks shocked and disgusted. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Roberto Hund)
A woman looks shocked and disgusted. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Roberto Hund)

A persistent lie is bound to be exposed sooner or later. In another incident, a hotel worker found himself struggling after claiming he knew Spanish during a job interview. When asked about his skills, he shared he knew a little, but coworkers soon assumed he could handle conversations with Spanish-speaking guests. For months, he relied on basic words while trying to avoid longer talks. His lie was finally exposed when he tried to help an upset family and accidentally said goodbye in Italian to them. The family misunderstood his comment, and a complaint followed. Another guest eventually stepped in to help the family and translate properly. But the man got sent to HR for his behavior and admitted the longer the lie continued, the harder it became to explain.

For more interesting stories, follow u/laazul on their Reddit account.

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