Man was having tough day and ended up speeding — cop’s response after learning the reason is garnering praise
Many impulsive decisions can be caused by pain or upsetting emotions. A driver was going through a similar struggle when he was speeding on a highway, per PEOPLE. A Louisiana sheriff, Deputy Dustin Byers, spotted the driver and immediately stopped him. He should have received a ticket or some sort of punishment to compensate for speeding and he did. However, the driver explained his situation and that he had a painstaking reason behind his impulsive actions. This prompted the officer to respond in an unexpected way with an added gesture that had the internet smiling. With over 22,000 reactions and 1,800 comments, people have got a much-needed kindness boost.
In a post shared by the St. Tammany Parish Sheriff's Office on Facebook, it was revealed that the man was stopped by the officer. When he spoke to him, he realized the man had a heartbreaking reality that pushed him to act the way he did. “The man explained he was on his way to a funeral and was having a tough day,” the post explained. According to the National Institute of Aging, the passing of a loved one can take a toll on a person. This can cause different effects and losing concentration is one of them. Though people have different ways of grieving, having support and empathy can always make a positive difference.
There was no additional information provided as to who the deceased was to the driver but Officer Byres understood the man’s grief. The funeral must have been something the man dreaded or something that ached his heart. To make things worse, the driver mentioned that he was unable to get his tie right. In a moment where even the slightest of things can cause frustration and extreme feelings, Officer Byres decided to lend a helping hand. He went beyond his duty as an officer and, at the side of the road, helped the driver do his tie right. The post contained a picture of the officer setting the man’s tie, while he was visibly in formal clothing.
In a comment shared by the St. Tammany Parish Sheriff's Office, it was revealed that the man did receive a citation for speeding. However, he will forever remember the officer’s gentle support in that brief, subtle moment. The post concluded with a heartfelt reminder, “Compassion still exists, even on the side of the road.” Many people were relieved to learn that there are kind strangers out there, making a difference in thoughtful ways. Others shared their own experiences with officers that helped them believe in humanity. Erin Frickey said, “Kindness costs nothing. You never know what others are going through.”
Torrence Edwards Sr. wrote, “I wish we could have more of these kinds of interactions. Humanity and compassion go a long way.” Ty Lamanche added, “This right here is a powerful reminder that kindness knows no uniform, no badge, and no boundaries. Deputy Byers chose compassion — turning frustration into dignity and stress into support. It’s the small gestures that leave the biggest impact.” Brittany CJ Carlile remarked, “Kudos to the police officer for helping this young man.”