Surgeon told a patient their melanoma was likely gone after surgery — but their one question in return moved her to tears
Dealing with a chronic illness is so exhausting and challenging that we sometimes forget the doctors helping us are also human beings with life stories just like ours. A Threads user, Amani Jambhekar, MD, who goes by @ajvictorymd, shared a post on Thursday, June 25, 2026, revealing how that changed after one encounter with a patient. The professional, who is a breast and melanoma surgical oncologist in Milford, Delaware, revealed that while she was engrossed in analyzing a cancer patient’s reports, they interrupted her with an inquiry that touched her heart.
Dr. Jambhekar had recently operated on the patient and was speaking to them about aftercare while discussing the outcome of the procedure. The conversation was serious, and as a medical professional, she was focused on delivering the information. She told them, “I feel confident we got your melanoma, and your pathology results will show that you are cancer-free.” While she was giving news that the patient had likely been hoping to hear, she was met with a totally different question — “That’s great to hear, Dr. Jambhekar. How are you? Did you get to eat lunch today?”
The simple question made the surgeon pause and reminded her that she was not just a medical professional dealing with serious health conditions, but also a human being who deserved a greeting and a little empathy. That interaction made her feel seen and showed her compassion that not many in such a demanding profession receive. Yes, the setting and the previous exchange were important, but that doesn’t mean kindness needs to be omitted. A couple of people misunderstood the point Dr. Jambhekar was trying to make. While they suggested she was trying to become the center of attention, she argued that two-way communication can exist with a doctor, too.
She added that preconceived notions often contribute to burnout among medical staff. According to the American Medical Association, 41.9% of healthcare workers reported experiencing one or more signs of burnout in 2025. Though that number has declined, healthcare workers still face demanding schedules and the responsibility for caring for the lives of others.
Lack of job satisfaction, fatigue, dealing with difficult patients, and witnessing the worst can all take a toll on medical workers. Adding a little kindness with a simple “How are you?” can make more of a difference than you might think. Doctors are primarily there to care for and treat patients, but they also need reassurance, hope, and encouragement.
Commenters took to the comments section to share their opinions. @jenniferolarsonwrites wrote, “Married to a pediatrician who often misses lunch. I always ask how my doctors are doing!” @dimpled.smiles1012 remarked, “It's normal to ask and check on each other, it's part of being a human. I'm so glad the care between you and your patients is mutual.” @anxietyruler mentioned, "I always ask. I have to have that connection."
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