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A cop and convict were tricked into sitting down for a coffee — they had no idea it would change their lives

Their interactions over a decade were marked by suspicion and a deep-seated certainty that the other would never change.
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(L) Image of Ray and Maclin. Cover Image Source: YouTube | CBS Evening News  (R)  A man handcuffed. Representative Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Jub Rubjob
(L) Image of Ray and Maclin. Cover Image Source: YouTube | CBS Evening News (R) A man handcuffed. Representative Cover Image Source: Getty Images | Jub Rubjob

They were never supposed to be on the same side. One wore a badge, the other carried a negative record; their paths crossed only at the time of conflicts. Seeing each other reminded them of everything they stood against. But life has a way of testing us, and that too in unexpected ways. Things changed. They turn out to be two men trying to rewrite the direction of their lives. One of them was Ray Robokowski, a police officer known for being firm, focused, and committed to keeping the town in order, as reported by CBS News.

Inmate speaking to police officer. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Photo by RDNE Stock Project)
Inmate speaking to police officer. (Representative Image Source: Pexels | Photo by RDNE Stock Project)

As he put it, "I wasn't a social worker; I was a police officer. My job was to take care of what needed to be taken care of." The other was Jacob Maclin, a drug dealer and active gang member who found himself in handcuffs so often that you could see him aging through his time in and out. Their interactions over a decade were defined by friction, suspicion, and a certainty deep down that the other wasn’t ever going to change.

Handcuffed suspect being arrested by police at night. Representative Image Source: Getty Images | kali9
Handcuffed suspect being arrested by police at night. Representative Image Source: Getty Images | kali9

Which is why it felt almost absurd when the district attorney’s office got them to sit down together over coffee. Robokowski only attended because his boss insisted. Maclin showed up because he’d been told there was a job interview waiting for him. Instead, they ended up across a table, saying almost nothing, just staring at each other with years of conflicts and resentment sitting between them. Robokowski admitted his thoughts at the time were far from hopeful. "You're going to screw up, and I'm going to find you and put you back," he recalled. Maclin didn’t disagree; he remembered feeling the very same distrust. 

A person behind bars, handcuffed. Representative Image Source: Getty Images | 	Caspar Benson
A person behind bars, handcuffed. Representative Image Source: Getty Images | Caspar Benson

But the set-up meeting didn’t dissolve into anger. Instead, it created an opening neither man had anticipated. Over the next couple of months, Maclin began proving he truly wanted a fresh start. He kept showing up, kept trying. As he put it, "He sent me on, maybe, 14 or 15 interviews in two weeks. And one of them was Community Warehouse." It is a nonprofit home-improvement store that hires and trains former inmates, and it changed everything. Maclin not only got the job, but he also built his future there. Eight years later, he’s part of the management team, a father of three, and someone who insists the cycle ends with him. His gratitude toward Robokowski runs deep: "Very, very, very, oh man, very..." he said, repeating the word until it barely sounded like enough.

Representative Image Source: Worker pulling a hand truck of packages.  Getty Images | 	Klaus Vedfelt
Representative Image Source: Worker pulling a hand truck of packages. Getty Images | Klaus Vedfelt

And then came the twist neither would have predicted: after Robokowski retired from the police force, he found himself looking for work again and turned to the man he once arrested. “Jacob Maclin!” he said, laughing at the irony. This time, Jacob was the one who could open a door, and yes, he did! Working side by side, the former enemies have helped more than a dozen ex-convicts build steadier lives.

Two men are talking. Representative Image Source: Getty Images | 	SolStock
Two men are talking. Representative Image Source: Getty Images | SolStock

Maclin calls Robokowski a different man than the one he first met. Robokowski says the same of Maclin. Their past hasn’t vanished, but it no longer defines them.

Today, the only chases in Maclin’s world are around playgrounds, and Robokowski spends his days helping people he once would’ve arrested. For two men who began as adversaries, the transformation is unlikely and exactly why their story has resonated far beyond Milwaukee.

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