Dad takes selfie with his newborn — but a giant mom diaper in the background is creating a buzz: 'Some find this uncomfortable'

The mom captured the not-so-picturesque side of postpartum motherhood and had all the attention on the internet.

PUBLISHED MAR 28, 2025

(L) Postpartum woman embracing body. (Representative Cover Image Source: Pexels| Photo by Laura Tancredi), (R) Dad holding newborn. (Representative Cover Image Source: Pexels| Photo by RDNE Stock Project), Facebook| Kendra M. Lawrence

No one can fully understand what happens to a mother’s body after she gives birth. The stitches, the bleeding, swelling, disfiguration and so many changes are somehow unique to each pregnancy and postpartum experience. Nevertheless, they’re all difficult and take strength, healing and time to get through. While many people are used to the idea of seeing a new mom covered in sheets with a big smile, there is a lot that goes on in her body. A mom named Amanda Bacon shared a visual glimpse of this experience and noted that it is but natural. The mom shared a picture of her husband holding his newborn with her in the background wearing a diaper. Her message about it resonates with many.

Mom looking at newborn moments after giving birth. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Photo by Johnathan Borba)

The picture consisted of the dad holding the baby with a big smile. So far, the image is like every new parent picture: adorable, cute, clean and pleasing to the eye. However, in the background, captured is the bare back of Bacon, with nothing but a huge mommy diaper on. Like many mothers, she too, wore a diaper post her initial days of delivery. This sight, on the other hand, might be inappropriate, unexpected and too honest for some to see. However, the mom poignantly noted that this is just “motherhood uncensored.” “I'm sharing this picture because it's real. This is motherhood; it's raw, stunning, messy and freaking hilarious all rolled into one,” she confidently remarked.

Dad coddling newborn. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Photo by danikprihodko)

The mom noted that “having a baby is a beautiful experience.” However, the behind-the-scenes and other experiences are often shunned or hidden behind closed doors and off the camera. “The realities of postpartum life aren't spoken about enough. And definitely not photographed enough,” Bacon pointed out. The mom acknowledged that “some might find this uncomfortable" but took the responsibility of questioning “why.” “I seriously don't get it! It's probably because this part isn't talked about. We all should try and educate, empower and embrace every aspect of childbirth, including moments like this,” she said.

Postpartum mom showing bloated belly and scars post delivery. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Photo by Dang Dao)

The mom added that both parts of parenting and motherhood should be equally shared and spoken about. There is nothing to be ashamed of and there is nothing to hide; it is all a natural process. Furthermore, Bacon suggested not being awkward about these experiences and “having a sense of humor” about them. To encapsulate her explanation with an example, the mom wrote a witty caption, “Nothing says welcome to motherhood like an adorable squishy baby and a giant mom diaper.” Many people commended the mom for being open-minded and upfront about motherhood.

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Amanda Olson said, “What a beautiful picture! Captures everything!” Lori Coffey added, “This literally brought tears to my eyes...I love this.” Kimberly Wood shared an uplifting message, saying, “This is an awesome picture and so true. Nothing like rockin' those mesh panties after birth!” Ashley Jamison remarked, “Love this!!! I didn't have a clue what was going to happen but I loved every minute of my experience just 3 months ago!” Amanda Jacobs rightly noted, “I love it. I agree with others who have said this side of motherhood and birth needs to be shown more. It's awkward but that awesome kind of awkward.”