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Woman asked why her White Hinge date only dated Black women — his answer made her realize there would be no second date

The 23-year-old was disgusted and in disbelief, knowing then and there she would never see him again.
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(L) A man smiles proudly while on a date. (R) A woman stares, confused and disappointed. (Representative Cover Image Source: Pexels| L - Ron Lach, R - Mikhail Nilov)
(L) A man smiles proudly while on a date. (R) A woman stares, confused and disappointed. (Representative Cover Image Source: Pexels| L - Ron Lach, R - Mikhail Nilov)

It’s okay if people have preferences when matching with someone on a dating app. However, those choices should come from a healthy place. A TikTok user who goes by @chiomaatuanya1 shared a bizarre first-date experience in a post on April 28, 2026. The 23-year-old explained that she was on a date with a 32-year-old white man when she learned he had only ever gone out with Black women. While she assumed it was just a personal taste, the explanation behind it left her shocked. It immediately changed the mood of the evening. 

A woman at a restaurant. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Nguyễn Bảo Trung)
A woman at a restaurant. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Nguyễn Bảo Trung)

The young woman explained that while her date was showing her pictures of his ex-girlfriend, she noticed they were Black women. She asked him about it, expecting a “normal” reason like features, culture, and so on. But he had a wild reply. “My family has a lot of health issues and sickness in my bloodline due to years of inbreeding. So, I want to date Black girls because the mixing of the two different gene pools gives the offspring improved health,” he casually said. The 23-year-old was disgusted and in disbelief. Though she remained there for a few more hours, she was certain that she’d never see him again. 

A man is laughing and talking on a date. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Mike Jones)
A man is laughing and talking on a date. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Mike Jones)

Since the man was 32 years old, she deliberately chose to go out with him, assuming he would be mature because of his age. However, his mindset and statements proved otherwise. The woman revealed that his perspective impacted how she looked at him for the rest of the night. She kept judging him and even started picking out faults in his appearance after he mentioned the word “inbred.” 

A woman looks shocked and disgusted. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Roberto Hund)
A woman looks shocked and disgusted. (Representative Image Source: Pexels| Roberto Hund)

While he was stoked to meet her again and insisted on a second date, the woman couldn’t help but wonder, “What’s in it for me? I save your bloodline, but in turn, I also make my children a bit more sick?” Commenters were as baffled as she was. @rosied1968 said, “Give thanks you found out now that this was the real intention for wanting to be with you.” @dancerrinthegreengrass added, “You had a lucky escape, this is crazy.” @user11rm remarked, “I don’t know how you kept a straight face.” 

Couple on date. (Representative Image Source: Pexels | Mike Jones)
Couple on date. (Representative Image Source: Pexels | Mike Jones)

First dates are meant to reveal much about a person, through habits, body language, and even wild confessions like these. In another incident, a woman revealed how her match, who chose to meet her at a restaurant, shared his bizarre “test.” When she placed an order for a salad, the man immediately interrupted, saying she “failed” because women usually don’t order anything on the first meeting.

She was left confused, since they had met at a restaurant, and eating was specifically expected to be a part of the evening. However, when he seemed confident about his ruthless method, she decided to end the evening. Discovering such antics may not be uncommon while interacting with new people; what’s important is to know how to get out of it, just like these two women did.

You can follow @chiomaatuanya1 on TikTok for more such content.

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