Dentist sent her home with basic painkillers after a traumatic extraction — her boyfriend’s appointment at the same clinic left her stunned
Pain after a dental procedure can be difficult to judge, and patients trust their doctors to provide the right care. A Reddit user shared how she accepted the pain relief advice given after a difficult wisdom tooth extraction without questioning it. The story was shared through her account u/amphibbian on July 6, 2026, after she noticed a major difference when her boyfriend visited the same dentist for a much simpler procedure. The contrast between their experiences made her rethink the treatment and support she received during her own recovery.
Boyfriend was opoids for the same procedure from the same Dentist who refused to prescribe pain relief for me.
by u/amphibbian in offmychest
The woman explained that she had both wisdom teeth removed on one side in a "traumatic extraction" that took a long time and required extra assistance. After the procedure, the dentist advised her to use common pain relievers like Panadol and Advil, and she accepted the recommendation. When her boyfriend later had a simple tooth extraction, he received pain medication that was "strong enough to knock out a horse." The difference surprised her because her case was more serious and painful. She recalled how the man also received follow-up calls from the clinic, while she was dismissed for calling about a "dry socket." She questioned the difference, saying, "I just don't understand how the same dentist and clinic can treat me so differently."
The woman said she felt upset because she believed her concerns were not taken as seriously as her boyfriend’s. While the latter was specifically being called to check for any issues, when she personally called to bring up the same for herself, she was only told to wait it out. Patients deserve to feel heard and supported when dealing with pain and recovery after treatment. What made things worse was that his pain medication seemed to be stronger than the post-surgery prescriptions she's had in the past. For her, the issue was not only about the medicine and dose but also about receiving equal care and attention. "Now I'm no stranger to medical misogyny, but this is one of the more blatant examples I've been faced with," she added.
Sadly, women still face gender discrimination in different areas, including the medical and law enforcement fields. In another incident, a former police official shared how she faced harassment and unfair treatment at her workplace. She claimed female officers were expected to follow unfair standards. The case later highlighted concerns about the need for change and accountability within the department. The woman said she faced repeated issues during her time on duty, including being denied opportunities despite her skills and experience. She claimed some women were called "incompetent" even after receiving promotions. Her lawsuit stated that female professionals felt pressure to be "submissive to the male officers" to fit in. A city official acknowledged the dilemma, saying, "It's a concern that we need to look into and address fairly as a city." The case ended with the jury holding the department responsible.
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